Why Men Leave Their Wives
December 8, 2009 | 17 Comments
Today’s women can find it challenging sometimes to keep their marriages intact and happy. Many women wonder why men leave their wives and what they can do to make sure it doesn’t happen to them.
The truth of the matter is that our society has made it very difficult for men and women to find long term loving relationships. Why? Because the rules our society has adopted are based on inaccurate information.
One of the most obvious misconception that is pervasive throughout our society is the idea that men only want *** and/or have a much higher *** drive than women. The truth is that men and women have similar *** drives but men have been encouraged, by society, to fulfill their needs while women have been discouraged from having *** until they are married.
This leads to many misunderstandings between men and women and how they approach their relationships. It might mean a man will be more tempted to cheat on his wife because after all, it’s in his nature. And it could mean that a women uses *** with the hopes of keeping her husband in love with her so he will stay in the marriage.
If we really got to the bottom of things though we would understand that men and women want basically the same things in a relationship. Both want to feel loved, respected, and desired by their partners. When you break it down like that it doesn’t really seem all that hard, does it?
If you want to keep your marriage strong try to meet your husbands needs…all of them, not just sexually. A word of caution here though. Because of the way our society has told us to behave women have the tendency to think that they have to meet their husbands needs even if that means ignoring their own. No! All that will do is make you resentful and bitter and that won’t keep a marriage intact.
While it’s important to try to meet your husbands needs it can’t be done to the detriment of your own. Don’t put your wants and needs on hold to satisfy your husband, you’ll be unhappy, he’ll be unhappy (and bored) and the marriage won’t last. For a marriage to thrive both parties need to be happy, healthy, stable, and have their needs being met on a regular basis.
So for any women who wants to know why men leave their wives it’s usually because his needs aren’t being met, and I don’t just mean his sexual needs. I mean on some level he doesn’t feel like you love, desire, or respect him and he will try to find someone who will.
Women Men Love And Women Men Leave
November 12, 2009 | 1 Comment
There are two types of women in the world, women men love women men leave. Which one are you? It doesn’t really matter which side you fall on at this point, if you read and use the information in this article you can become the women men love for the rest of your life.
The first step to make sure your man will love you the way you want to be loved, is to know what it is your man needs in the relationship and then give it to him. This seemingly simple thing is messed up more often than you would believe. Many women will think this means to be completely subservient to their man and do whatever he wants even if she doesn’t want to do it.
Nothing could be further from the truth. In reality no man (unless he’s “damaged goods” which you wouldn’t want to be in a relationship with anyway) wants a women who is a door mat. A real man will like his women to have a mind of her own, but he also wants her to be his biggest fan.
Women tend to think that if they give their man all the *** he wants, and if they dress up in **** lingerie they are meeting all their mans needs. Again, if that is truly all your man needs you might want to find a man with a little more depth. It’s a misconception that all men want is ***. Yes, *** is an important part of a relationship, for men and women, but it shouldn’t be the do all, end all in any relationship, if it is your relationship will fail, it’s just a matter of time.
In order to really form a long lasting bond you need to base your relationship on more than just physical intimacy. Whether we like it or not, we will all get older and as we do *** will become more difficult for various physical reasons. If your whole relationship is just based on physical intimacy, how can it survive once that is taken out of the equation?
The women that men leave, believe it or not, are the women who try too hard to be whatever he wants. Your man needs to feel special and loved, admired, and desired, but it won’t mean very much to him if it doesn’t seem sincere. If he feels like you are just being pliable he will quickly get bored and move on to someone more ‘real’.
So for all you women out there, you do have a choice. You can be either type of women: women men love women men leave. It’s entirely up to you. It doesn’t mean giving up your own identity, it just means trying to understand your man and what he really wants and needs from you.
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Do You Want To Be The Women Men Adore And Never Want To Leave
November 8, 2009 | Leave a Comment
Many women dream of becoming the women men adore and never want to leave. But just as many women go about it in the totally wrong way and end up losing one guy after another. What is the secret? I’ll show you.
The first thing you have to do is totally change your way of thinking. Our society has done a huge disservice to men and women by creating unrealistic expectations of what men and women should be.
For example, for most of our history we have been taught that men are overly sexual and that they really only want ***. We’ve been led to believe that if we give our man enough *** he’ll love us forever and never leave. That is complete and utter nonsense!
Yes men like sex, but surprise, so do women! Women have just as high of a *** drive as men but the difference is our society has encouraged men to follow their *** drive while women have been taught that ‘good girls’ will wait until they’re married. The result? Men judge their ‘manliness’ on the number of conquests they make and women are frustrated and angry that they are forced to put their needs on hold.
So if you want to keep your man happy you need to get over the idea that he needs *** all the time or that he needs it more than you. Men and women really aren’t that different in what they need and want from a relationship. One word can describe what they want: connection.
As humans we all need to feel connected to others. If you can remember that and base your relationship on that fact you will have a great chance of making your man love you forever.
A connection can be made emotionally, spiritually, and sexually. The more of these types of connections you and your man have the stronger your relationship will be. If you want to keep him in love with you stay in love with yourself. Don’t get sidetracked and put all your desires on hold to accommodate your man. Most men will be flattered with that in the short term but in the long run they’ll get bored.
After all, you have to remember who you were when you met, he was attracted to that person so why would you change and become some boring, clingy person now?
The women men adore and never want to leave knows all of theses things. She gives her man the connections he needs while keeping her own identity intact. She doesn’t put his needs above hers, but she lets him know that she is his biggest fan and loves and accepts him unconditionally.
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Men Who Leave Their Wives
November 5, 2009 | 1 Comment
Many women have had to face the heartbreak of a relationship break up. It’s never easy, and most would do just about anything to avoid a break up. Men who leave their wives have many reasons for doing so, but there are some things to keep in mind so you can hopefully avoid finding yourself in that painful situation.
One thing all women need to keep in mind, that might seem to go against everything they’ve ever heard or believed, is that men and women aren’t all that different in what they want from a relationship, they just have different ways of getting it.
Men want their women to love, respect, and admire them. Most men want to feel like they are meeting all of the needs of their wives and girlfriends and they want their women to show a high level of appreciation. They want to be admired.
It’s important for everyone to feel accepted for who they really are and feel like they are appreciated for all they do. Men, and women, will leave a relationship if these basic needs aren’t met.
One common misconception is that men leave their wives because they have found another women who they are attracted to. While this may be true to a point, they were most likely already feeling like their needs weren’t being met long before the ‘other woman’ came into the picture.
One of the difficult things for women to deal with is that most men either don’t understand why they’re feeling the way they are or they are unable, or unwilling, to try to discuss it and come up with a solution. They just know they are unhappy and are sick of feeling that way.
If you want to try to keep your relationship with your husband happy and healthy, it’s important that you understand that even though he may express his needs in a different way than you he still has the same basic need to be loved and admired that you do. He wants to feel like he is your prince charming and is the most important person in the world to you. Meeting these needs will help ensure that your husband isn’t one of the men who leave their wives.
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