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Bulk Header ExampleSo you’ve broken up with your guy, and now you’re regretting it. You want some relationship help/advice because now you’re realizing that he was the one for you and that you miss having him around. Every time you see his picture, your heart breaks and you start hating yourself for having driven him away.
Here’s where you have to make one of the most important decisions of your post-break up existence: should you resign yourself to losing him and move on, or should you stand your ground and try to get him back?If you settle on winning your ex-boyfriend back, the first thing to do is take a deep breath and really assess the situation.
Take the time to get to know yourself before you start dating to win him back. Pull yourself together, basically. When you go back to reconnect with your ex, you want him to see a strong confident woman, who can take care of herself just fine. See you happy and independent will make him want you back way more than seeing you sad and pathetic.Your first instinct is probably going to be to tell him how much you love him and how you’ve thought it all through and you really want him back, that you’re sorry for all the mistakes you made and that you really want the relationship to work this time.
But no matter how strong this urge might be, don’t do it. If you truly wish to win him back, the actions you are going to have to take are going to be pretty counter-intuitive. Restraint is the name of the game. You can’t come on too strong when you first approach him again. Give him space. Don’t throw yourself at his feet and make it obvious that you’re trying to get him back.
Remember that piece of advice about not coming on too strong because it guarantees that he’ll get scared off? Dialing him at home while you sit in the corner of a nightclub plastered off your mind is a surefire way of ruining all those months you’ve spent patiently re-building your relationship.
Last but not least: stay positive. It will be hard. You’ll feel like you’re losing him and you need to reach out and pull him towards you. Your mind will start doubting at times. But no matter how scared or insecure you get, you have to stay calm and stay positive. Always put up a happy, positive vive when you’re around him. Being sad and depressed will only work against you. The more you fear losing him, the likelier you are to lose him.
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